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HOUSE RESOLUTION 1101


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WHEREAS, It has been more than 30 years since the enactment
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of the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act; and

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WHEREAS, American society and law have undergone
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significant and numerous changes particularly affecting
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families and family law; and

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WHEREAS, The General Assembly has dealt with these changes
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only by amending individual sections of the Act without regard
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to the overall statutory scheme of the Act; and

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WHEREAS, It is time for a thorough and comprehensive review
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of the Act to improve and update it in the context of these
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changes in the last 30 years; therefore, be it

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RESOLVED, BY THE HOUSE OF REPRESENTATIVES OF THE
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NINETY-FIFTH GENERAL ASSEMBLY OF THE STATE OF ILLINOIS, that
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the Illinois Family-Law Study Committee is created to study and
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recommend how the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage
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Act should be amended to improve and update it; and be it
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further

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RESOLVED, That the Committee shall consist of the following
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members:


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(1) Four members appointed by the Speaker of the House
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of Representatives, one of whom shall be designated by the
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Speaker to serve as the chairperson of the Committee;
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(2) Four members appointed by the Minority Leader of
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the House of Representatives;
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(3) Two members appointed by the Supreme Court of
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Illinois, one each from (1) an Illinois statewide bar
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association and (2) a metropolitan bar association; and
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(4) Two members appointed by the Illinois Child Support
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Advisory Committee, one of whom is (1) its chairperson or
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designee and (2) a member of a statewide organization whose
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membership is exclusively comprised of matrimonial
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lawyers; and be it further

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RESOLVED, That the Committee should seek voluntary
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assistance from education, legal, civic, and professional
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organizations and institutions in its review; and be it further

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RESOLVED, That the members of the Committee shall serve
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without compensation but may be reimbursed for actual expenses
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incurred while serving on this Committee from funds
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appropriated to the Department of Healthcare and Family
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Services' budget for that purpose; and be it further

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RESOLVED, That the Committee shall submit its final report
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to the Governor and the House of Representatives on or before



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December 31, 2008.

wtf...why? no, for real....why?

This is what she did to Nina's arm the night before they left for camp.




i know what your logical, rational minds are thinking right now...."omg! now nina's stealing too!!!!!"
no, friends....she's not. she got that because she wasn't cleaning her room fast enough for her mothers liking.
yeah.
she got whipped with a belt on her upper arms like a fucking slave in the deep south because she wasn't cleaning fast enough.
this is what it looked like in the morning, hours before she left for camp:

Personally, I'm amazed dcfs wasn't waiting for us when we got home.
That's why i ask "why?"
Why not just spank her on the bottom-where spanking belongs. Why beat her and leave marks in the most visible place possible-you want to be caught? you want to be investigated by dcfs for the THIRD TIME?
Maybe she thought we wouldn't send her. She tried very, very hard to sabatoge the trip. She said she would provide clothing-what she sent did not fit, was inappropriate for camping and playing, and was actually dirty laundry. Not just that it didn't smell fresh-or that it was stained-it had food crusted on to it-the kind of crust where-had it been hit with water-it would not be there. Not to mention-most of it was clothes I bought them and they wore over there-and I hadn't seen in months and months.
Then the bathing suits. The camp only allows one-piece bathing suits. I only have two piece bathing suits for them. She says they have one-piece bathing suits over there. ok. please send them. since they haven't worn them in a year-they need to try them on, of course and make sure they still fit. i ask that she let me know immediately if they don't fit so i can go get them suits that fit(even tho-i'm not working-and i really can't afford it-but they need them-so i gotta do what i gotta do)friday night they come with the bathing suits-i say-oh good, they still fit. they tell me they don't know if they still fit. their mother told them NOT to try them on and if they don't fit-"oh well."
THIS COCKEATING BITCH.
sorry. it's been a couple days....but the whole way that went down still gets me heated.
They also have THREE SWEATERS A PIECE that i bought them for over here. All of them are over at her fucking sty cuz they wear them to  school on  monday and never bring em back.
And lace-up gym shoes I bought them for school. Also over there-because she likes to send them in dollar store flip-flops.
I want to send a sweater with them in case it is rainy or cold-as it HAS been up in wisconsin the past couple days. I also want to send them in lace-up gym shoes-because how are you supposed to run around and play or go on hikes in the woods with flip-flops......SHE REFUSES TO LET US COME GET THESE THINGS.

She tried every way possible to stop them from going on this trip. And I hate her for that. And while I think she is truly an idiot-I don't out it past her to fucking beat on her daughter in the most visible place possible just to try and stop her from going.

My poor nina. But everything worked out. I will never let her win. And I'll do everything in my power to make sure she can't take away any more of their childhood than she already has.

hottness. yes.

Kleptomania

Friends. the child. has lost. her mind.
she waited until everyone in the house went to sleep, crept out of her bed and down the hall and stole fifty-one dollars from her fathers' pants pocket.
her father. the one who spent 6grand fighting a custody battle just so that child could be there on sunday nights so she could steal from him.
he looked everywhere. he went all over the house, outside, in the car, and i know he would rather have lost every dime of that money and never seen it again-instead of going into his daughters' room and finding it in her bed.
he's so hurt. so betrayed. he couldn't even spank her. this morning...he...he tried. he gave a couple whaps. but i could tell that's not what he wanted to do. he didn't want to discipline her.
he didn't want to punish her.
he wanted to break down and cry.
he wanted her to tell him why-give him some coherent reason-no matter how petty.

but there aren't any answers.

the child did not go to school.
her missing one of the last three days isn't going to change any of her f's anyway. and she'd just go and talk to her friends and ignore her teacher and blow off her classwork and then get to hang out with all those badass little girls afterschool while she waits for her eggdonor to pick her up...and it'd be a regular monday. nothing remarkable.
no. she's here. with me. and this will be a day she remembers because i am putting her thru everything my head can concoct. she says she's sorry...but she's not sorry yet. and while she may remember this day for the torture and the
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i know i'll never forget this day. this is the day she broke her daddy's heart.

AND IF ANYONE HAS ANYTHING THEY WOULD LIKE TO SAY TO HER-PLEASE-YOU ARE MORE THAN WELCOME TO ADD THE COMMENT AND SHE WILL HEAR IT. AND IF YOU HAVE ANY PUNISHMENT SUGGESTIONS-WE'RE OPEN ALL DAY.
JUST DON'T BOTHER WITH ANY THEORIES ON WHY SHE DID IT OR HOW IT'S "NOT SO BAD" OR ANY OF THAT NORMAL CHILD BEHAVIOR JUNK. BECAUSE TRUST ME-THE PILE OF STRAW ON THIS CAMELS BACK IS HUCKING FUMONGOUS